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Top 10 Sex Toys for Couples: Our Picks for Shared Pleasure

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Because the couple that plays together, stays together.

The best couples’ toys aren’t about replacing anyone, they’re about adding new layers of fun, sensation, and connection.

They can be wild and kinky, soft and teasing, or even discreet enough to wear out in public. Some make you laugh, some make you squirm, and some leave you wondering why you didn’t start using them sooner.

Here are my top 10 picks, the ones that spark curiosity, deepen intimacy, and make you want to text your partner “You free tonight?” before you’ve even finished reading this list.

1. We-Vibe Chorus

If I had to crown one couples’ toy as “Most Likely to Start a Heated Makeout Session,” it would be the We-Vibe Chorus.

It’s a C-shaped vibrator that you wear during penetration. One arm hugs your G-spot from the inside, while the other rests on your clit. The result? Both of you feel the vibration with every single movement.

It’s adjustable so it fits your body perfectly, and it’s controlled with a squeeze remote or through an app. That squeeze feature is genius, your partner can literally control the intensity just by tightening their hand.

How to make it hotter: Use it during slow, deep thrusts and keep eye contact. The combination of rhythm, vibration, and connection is… chef’s kiss.

Link for We-Vibe Chorus

2. Lovense Lush 3

This is the long-distance power couple toy, but it’s also sneaky enough for public play.

The Lush 3 is a wearable egg-shaped vibrator that sits against your G-spot and is controlled entirely through an app. That means your partner can control it from anywhere in the world or from across the dinner table.

It’s rumbly, it stays in place, and it’s quiet enough for some very thrilling “do they know?” moments.

How to make it hotter: Wear it out together and set up a game, every time they make a certain signal, you have to turn it up a level.

Link to Lovense Lush 3

3. Satisfyer Double Joy

If the We-Vibe Chorus is a little out of your budget, the Double Joy is the solid “entry-level” alternative.

It’s also a C-shaped couples’ vibrator designed for use during penetration. The fit isn’t as snug or adjustable, but the app control and vibration power still make it a lot of fun.

How to make it hotter: Use it during foreplay before you even think about penetration, glide it along nipples, trace it over inner thighs, and tease each other until you can’t take it anymore.

4. Dame Eva II

This little thing looks like a butterfly and sits right on your clit, held in place by flexible “wings” that tuck under your labia.

Hands-free toys are underrated, they free you up to kiss, grab, pull hair, and roam without ever losing stimulation. And for couples, that means you can add clit vibrations to anything you’re doing without having to stop.

How to make it hotter: Pair with a blindfold and have your partner decide when it’s on or off. Not knowing when that buzz will hit? Delicious torture.

5. Tenga Spinner Masturbator

Okay, now we’re talking about penis play. The Tenga Spinner is a textured stroker that twists with every stroke, creating a tight, swirling sensation.

It’s an absolute joy to use on your partner, partly because the textures feel amazing for them, but also because you get to watch their whole body react in real time.

How to make it hotter: Go slow. Make eye contact. And when they’re close? Pull back for a few seconds and let the tension build.

Link to Tenga Spinner

6. Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

This one is different from any other penis toy, it uses a “pulse plate” that oscillates instead of just vibrating, and it works even without an erection.

You can use it solo, during oral, or while facing each other in bed. The Duo version has a second motor so you both get stimulation at the same time.

How to make it hotter: Use it for extended edging sessions, keep them right on the edge for minutes at a time, then tip them over with just a tiny increase in power.

Link to Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

7. Bondage Boutique Restraint Kit

Not every couples’ toy has to vibrate. Sometimes, the hottest thing you can add is a little bit of restraint.

A basic kit with cuffs, a blindfold, and some rope changes the energy instantly. When one person can’t see or move, the anticipation makes every touch more intense.

How to make it hotter: Combine with a slow, torturous suction toy on the bound partner. Tease, pause, repeat.

8. Satisfyer Pro 2

This one’s practically a household name in the toy world. It uses air-pulse suction to stimulate the clit without direct contact, meaning less numbness and more “holy crap” moments.

During partnered play, it frees up hands and lets you focus on other sensations while still getting intense clitoral pleasure.

How to make it hotter: Have your partner hold it against you while they kiss you, whisper in your ear, or… do other things.

Link to Satisfyer Pro 2

9. Lelo Tor 2

A vibrating cock ring that adds stimulation for both partners. It keeps them harder for longer and gives extra clit contact during penetration.

It’s waterproof, rechargeable, and made of silky silicone. So it feels luxe as well as functional.

How to make it hotter: Flip it upside down for perineum stimulation instead. It changes the whole experience.

10. Melt by We-Vibe

Another air-pulse toy, but with app control. This means your partner can be in charge of your clit from anywhere in the room (or anywhere in the world).

Perfect for teasing, edging, and making you beg for more.

How to make it hotter: Give them control during foreplay and tell them they’re not allowed to let you finish until they say so.

Final Word

Couples’ toys aren’t just about orgasms. They’re about creating shared experiences. The kind that have you both laughing, panting, and maybe a little sore the next morning.

Pick one, charge it, and see where it takes you. Worst case? You end up tangled in bed laughing your asses off. Best case? Well… you might need to put a towel down.

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